Used as a verb

Sorry about the title, its an allusion to a movie (and the title of one of its DVD chapters) but has nothing to do with this post.

So, going of a stupid Quizilla quiz from a friend, the topic becomes gay as a non-sexual personality trait. No, I didn't take the How to Be Gay class. I feared the big cinematic/broadway musicals of old that they may have shown despite the fact that modern musicals and some ironic ones of past are good. And, therein lies the challenge.

As a bisexual, with the exception of the gothy-trend of gender fucking (I wear a full length skirt on occasion...I need boots to go with it), I wonder just how gay, personality-wise, I act. And, no I'm not talking about when I have a guys hardon anywhere near my vicinity, I'm talking every day life. I get a kick out of gay-bashing jokes, but then I also get a kick out of racist humor, and am quite racist to all races myself (especially those damn spics). I can identify misogynistic humor, and used to like The Man Show for its bashing of men as being stupid and one-minded. Well, I guess this just points out I'm not P.C.

But, then I'm getting off subject. What is gay as a personality trait? Does it exist? I know there are exceptions to the rule and I'm not talking closets people. Is a marked lack of masculine (read: stereotypically guy) traits a part of gay personality? Is it the way you move or speak? Is it what you say? Is it how graphic you are and how?

Hmmmmm...